The latest...

Sheesh! It seems that lately we've been go-go-go... with what exactly I'm not even 100%. I must be getting old or just have a mommy brain but I can hardly remember what takes place from day to day. It's as though it gets deleted as soon as I move on to the next one. All I know is that I'm exhausted by day's end.

That is where my friend the blog helps me out...I can journal a few things that otherwise I know will never make it to my hard drive.

So here are a few happenings as of late...

(Let's see what I can remember...!)

PARKER:

P started an Itty Bitty All-Ball class with his friend Zach through our local rec center. Today was his 3rd class of 6 and they are exposed to soccor, football and T-Ball. It's pretty darn cute, I must say.

WHEN Parker chooses to participate that is. For the last few months my little man who was BORN independent (previously this kid could walk around a mall with no parent in sight without batting an eyelash) has suddenly turned into a VERY clingy/whiney 3 1/2 year old when we do things with other kids. At our house he seems fine. But All-Ball class, Sunbeams at church, & playdates he REALLY struggles to detach himself from my arm. It drives me a bit crazy (& Chris even crazier) and we're not quite sure how to handle it. Even bribery of playing the Wii, chocolate, or another love - the reward of popcorn at Target don't do the trick. When those didn't phase him I knew we had a big problem on our hands. But we are trying. And that is why I signed him up for this. He NEEDS this interaction in group settings!

EMMIE....

THIS little girl (who is sick AGAIN by the way!) has developed a strong sense of style. Well, I'm not sure STYLE is the right word seeming as most days she's a complete rag-a-muffin, but she has a STRONG opinion for what she wants to wear each day.

One of many examples:

The other night I heard her throwing up in her crib at 3 a.m. (awesome), so I go in, clean her & her crib up and get her new jams to wear. I found out that the ones I chose were NOT acceptable when she started screaming, "No! No!" over and over again. Really? You are throwing up, have a fever and it's 3 a.m. and you have an opinion on what jams you want to wear?

YES. She did. Whatever the 20 month old wants. So we had to lay out all her pajama options from her drawer so that she could make what she felt was the appropriate choice. It took her about 4 minutes of debating before she finally pointed and said, "Dose". I'm afraid this is only the beginning of a very opinionated girly girl. Happy day. :)

CHRIS

Has recently developed a love for Blu-Ray DVD's. This red-head doesn't express a lot of excitement over many things, but he gushes about those Blu-rays. He even convinced me to watch Iron Man with him. He was a bit offended that I was giggling in disbelief half way through (come on - the dude turns himself into a flying transformer that saves the world) but nontheless it was exciting and the blu-ray was pretty sweet - I will even admit. :)

ME:

So I have developed a strong liking for THIS American Idol contestant:

No, not Ryan Seacrest. LEE DEWYZE. He is amazing and I'd purchase his tunes in a minute. Not to mention he's pretty cute. I am rooting for him all the way!

I was a little perplexed just now as I was getting his pic and noticed that he was born the same year as my little bro - 7 years my junior. Really?? Dang. I really must be getting old.

Well that is plenty for now. Exciting, I know - for the one person who might still read my blog.... !

Barnyard Party

~Parker, Emmie, Atticus~

Hooray for cousins!!!

A few weeks ago P & E's little cousin Atticus & Aunt Cindy (Chris' brother - Eric's wife) were in town from Texas so clever Grandma Hansen put on a cute "Cousin's Barnyard Party" for the reunion.

Activities consisted of hunting for hidden little animals around the house, singing 'Old MacDonald with props made by Gma H, an animal toss into the barnyard (notice flying green bear in front of carefully aimed Atticus), playdough animals, & even peanut butter sandwiches in animal shapes. They also got to take home cute barnyard sacks full of fun prizes!

Thanks Grandma H for such a cute party.

The kiddos loved it & loved hanging out with their cousin A!

Best scent ever

I LOVE Bath & Body Works!

But then - what girl doesn't, right?

I am obsessed with their hand soaps...I feel like a bad home exec (help me out -sounds better than homemaker, right...maybe? Maybe not.)

if I don't have one at every sink in our house.

I am currently IN LOVE with this scent:

(pull out all the stops - this is definitely deserving of a drumroll and maybe some spectacular fireworks...)

*ISLAND NECTAR*

Seriously - AmAzInG...probably my favorite ever -- & there are some pretty good ones out there.
I recently stocked up with 6 of them myself...
The only thing wrong with it is that they don't carry this scent in lotions...(what are they thinking).... just soap and home fragrance.
I'm okay with it though. I just feel blessed to be associated with it as
my beloved foamy soap.
It makes me inhale with delight everytime I wash my hands.
Which tends to be alot since I'm a bit of a germaphobe...

Seriously... TRY IT!!! It's so worthy of a trip to the store. You won't regret it.
& in case you were thinking of getting me a gift sometime...a box of these would be a welcomed treasure, for sure... :)

Spring trip to the desert

On Sunday we got back from spending 8 days in sunny St. George, visiting my Mom & Reed. We had a great time and were so happy that Chris could join us for half the trip!

{The good old doggy door always provides some pretty rad entertainment... the two munchkins were chasing each other round and round...}

We had a great time at this popular splash park over by the Tabernacle.

E & P both had a blast, but H20-obsessed-Emmie was especially in heaven!

The cute but cautious one above got a little wet....

But Emmie was FEARLESS and needless to say ended up SOAKED!

She was so funny not only trying to drink the water, but she also got a kick out of sticking her bum in the waterfalls over and over again!

We did not come ready to get so wet and the poor girl was shivering but she loved it so much she didn't whine once with the cool breeze hitting her wet clothes...braver girl than me - for sure! :)


On our last day there, my Mom and I took the kids to a Kite Festival.

It stinks when hundereds (thousands? A LOT!) of people show up to such an event armed with their souped up kites and the wind doesn't show.

No wind meant no flying kites but tons of bouncy houses and yummy snowcones kept my two monkeys occupied and thoroughly entertained!

I was completely entertained watching them bouncing, sliding, climbing and laughing.

If my kids have fun - I have fun!

Emmie once again was fearless and wanted to do everything her big brother was doing. And she pretty much did!

My poor Mom has had problems with her arm/shoulder for the last few years... so much so that she hasn't been able to work out or put her makeup on with her right hand for the last 6 months. She is finally having surgery today to have the rotator cuff in her shoulder replaced and will be out of commission for the next several months.

Not fun! :(

Good luck Mom - we love ya and we'll be praying for you!
Thanks for a fun trip to the desert!

Just helpin' out

Emmie gets sick of me asking her big brother to do simple tasks over and over again with no follow through on his part. One example he struggles with each day is getting dressed into his clean clothes that are freshly laid out for him each morning.

Something that has become evident in our home lately is that:

P is a procrastinator & E is a 'get-it-done' kinda girl.

So much so, that sometimes she just goes ahead and does his little tasks for him.... Like the other day when she helped him out by putting on his (clean) undies - all by herself - that had been laying on the floor for P to wear all morning. She'd heard me tell him a million times to put these on so she took the initiative and did it herself.

She was so proud! And so was I. They were even the right way. :)

Such a nice, helpful little sis!

While I'm at it, her efficiency doesn't stop there.

This little 19 month old do-it-herselfer drops her dishes into the sink following a meal, (plastic of course!) makes sure to wash her hands before eating, puts her own socks on (P is just barely doing this himself!), tries to dress herself, and puts her dirty laundry in the hamper each night after her bath. (To give Parker some credit, he does that one, too.) She will also assist Parker in cleaning his plate when he takes too long to eat by stealing bites. And as you can see in the bottom right pic, she is always toddling around trying to help me clean.

Don't get me wrong, Parker is a great helper as well in a lot of ways.

But Em is thorough and to the point while Parker gets extremely distracted from the task at hand.

SUCH A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BOYS & GIRLS I tell ya!

Well, between my boy & girl that is. :)

But I love them both the same. Even when P ignores me and E walks around in her big brother's Toy Story undies while spraying down my fridge with a water bottle....

Ready, Set, Easter!

Let the egg hunts begin!!!(Mr. Easter Bunny that is :))



We love Easter at our house and we weren't going to let some icky germs that had long overstayed their welcome ruin our holiday. So coughing, goop, and all --we celebrated our day!




Parker and Emmie were so cute hunting for their eggs. I was worried that Em wouldn't quite get what to do since we hadn't 'practiced' due to being sick, but she dove right in and filled her basket like a pro. Parker was so excited that the Easter Bunny had come and especially excited that he had left them a special note on his chalk board.
(We are LOVING our new basement by the way. Chris finished it just before Christmas and I keep meaning to do a post on it and show off his handy work but I have totally slacked... I can't even tell you how nice the extra room has been though! WE LOVE IT!!! It was so fun to have Easter down there.)




This kind of sums up how they were feeling that day. Parker was still a pretty sick little guy but Em just excited to be leaps and bounds better than she was earlier in the week.

I went ahead and dressed them up even though they were sick and despite having no church due to General Conference... but hey I figured they may as well get use out of their Easter outfits on Easter. You'll be sick of yellow and blue by the end of this post... :)


REALLY?! Snow? On Easter???


I of course took a million pics trying for just one great one. I failed...but some of them are still pretty cute.... sorry for the picture overload but trust me this is just a small fraction of what I'd like to post.... ;)

After our morning festivities mixed with some good conference, we headed over to Grandpa Todd's for yet another egg hunt and a yummy lunch. Parker hit the jackpot finding the 'bonus' egg which contained a ten dollar bill! Wahoo! Emmie hammed it up in a cute hat and sunglasses that came in her basket from Gpa Todd and Parker was of course enthralled with my cousin's new IPad computer thingy. It WAS pretty amazing! (Seriously!) Then we went and visited my cute Grandma who has been in the hospital and now in a rehab facility for the last month or so. This is the first year EVER that we haven't had our big Easter Egg hunt at her home!
We missed you, Mimi and hope you get better soon!

Then we were off to Chris' parents to close the day. We had a delicious dinner, another egg hunt, played 'Easter Jeopardy' and the Easter Bunny himself (aka Gpa Hansen) even called and talked to Parker on the phone mid-hunt. (Sooo funny!) Chris' cute Grandpa in the picture above just turned 95 on April 1st! And Grandma Lonczyna isn't far behind him.
Aren't they adorable??? I just love them.


It was great day!!! :)

The saga continues....

This little guy....

Well.

His face pretty much sums it up.

MISERABLE.

Oh the sad, sad, face.

You guessed it...poor Parker fell Victim #2....

Good news is that it didn't quite get to his lungs so they ruled out pneumonia for this one. Thank you! But he has surely been one SICKLY little guy.

I will spare all of the lovely details except to say (okay I'm not sparing you all the details) that on top of all the nasty symptoms that Em had, that he also is having lovely vomit episodes that began right in the doctors office yesterday morning, carried through last night where I didn't have to think twice about disposing his chucked on pillow (seriously how do you salvage a pillow soaked in throw up? You don't.), to having my precious three year old take the time to tell me with his head in the toilet in between hurling this morning, "Bye Mom, I'll miss you!" as I was leaving to go to a Dr. appointment myself (yeah I'm sick too).

Always such a thoughtful Little P, even mid-vomit. Oh, how I love my little guy.

The night before last as he was burning up with fever and his little body had chills so bad he was shaking uncontrollably, I sadly told him how sorry I was that he was sick.

He looked up at me with those baby blues which were overridden at the time by redness due to illness, and told me in his sickly, scratchy voice, (while shaking),

"It's okay, Mom. Don't worry, I will get better soon so that you and Daddy can play with me!".

?!?!?! Seriously! How does he have empathy like that? He's three! And he's reassuring ME that he'll be better soon so that Chris and I will have a playmate again?? All I can say is that this little three year old melts my heart.

Yes, somedays he also makes me want to rip my hair out, but in moments like this the charm and wisdom that accompanies his tiny body, but big spirit -- FAR cancels out and overrides his naughtiness.

(I realize that I can say that at the moment because he's laying quiet in bed...:))

The GREAT news is that THIS little cutie-

even though still sick herself, is bouncing back and seems to be on the upswing!

(Fingers crossed!)

YAY!!!

Thanks for all of your concern! :)

SO, our week that was supposed to be filled with practice Easter egg hunts, sugar cookie decorating, yummy treat making, egg dying and decorating, & fun festive Easter crafts hasn't quite turned out like I envisioned.

But that is life.

And it's okay. I am just grateful for health insurance and the blessing of modern medicine that have come to our aid this week & are helping my kids overcome illnesses that in some places around the world (even right here in the U.S.) can be deadly.

(1 in 5 patients with pneumonia don't make it - so said the doctor I saw this a.m.!)

So this Easter weekend, even with all the coughing, fevers, goopiness, aches, sore throats, and even vomit in our home & with 3 of us on antibiotics, & minus all the exciting Easter festivities, my little fam has much to be grateful for! And we are!

(Here's to still hoping P will get better quick - he hasn't made much progress so far & I'm still praying for a miracle so that he can hunt for eggs this weekend...!)

HAPPY EASTER!!!

My complaining was justified...

We made a trip to the doc.

Not good.

PNEUMONIA.

EMMIE.

Awesome. :(

Nursery Times

It's official.

Her first 18 months flew by and this sweet little face started nursery last month.

Crazy. Exciting....

SO many plusses:

She is willing to go and seems to enjoy it. My 2 cute neighbors are her darling teachers. I can actually go to Sunday School and hear the lesson. I don't have to roam the hall with my disruptive toddler when I should be in class with the YW.

All great, right?

Just one problem. So far we've only been able to go every other week.

WHY?

You guessed it.

GeRmS.

It is almost inevitable that this smiling, cheerful face turns to this sad one:

(It breaks my heart)

several days later upon spending a few hours in nursery. I am so torn. Not to be negative, but a fever (102.7), cough, constant goop and a miserable little girl seem to outweigh the benefits of sending her. Especially when the following Sunday we have to skip church in order to avoid spreading the same germs that someone else so lovingly decided to bring with them the previous week and share with my Em.

Nursery may be the time in life that these little ones learn to share, but really, do we have to share EVERYTHING?

The good news is that spring is here, General Conference is next week and with stake conference soon after, we will have a little break and hopefully all this RSV and pneumonia floating around will have dissipated upon our return.

Meanwhile I am off to take care of my Em...

and to suggest to the bishopric that calling a

Lysol Nursery Specialist would be a good move. (Only kind of kidding)

Not to step on any toes or anything.

Seriously, a little disinfectant would make for a much healthier toddler rate post nursery visits.

Fact is fact.

How can it not be taken seriously when it affects church attendance??

Or are we the only ones that come home from church with sick kids?

I know, I know. What do ya do?

If you're me, apparently you whine. :)

Relief

*Big Sigh*......

Well.

I made it.

The troops are in bed.

(HAPPY DAY!!)

They're still alive.

I'm still alive.

Now why do I feel like I've just run a marathon?

Up hill the entire way??

Dang. This kid thing is exhausting.

To say the least.

Now excuse me while I go and get some much needed R&R and catch up on my American Idol....

Oh, and if anyone needs me, please tell them I am clocked out until morning.

(I wish... :))

Raise your hand if you're ready for summer

& both hands if you're really ready for summer! :)

Bring it on, sunshine, these two little munchkins can't wait!!!

Candid camera, are you there?

I have mentioned Parker's obsession with my hair before. Well. Just so you know, his strong (& strange) attachment to it continues....

...So much so, that sometimes I'm waiting for candid camera to pop out and tell me that the joke is on me and my 3 year old is in on it. It is all I can fathom to explain this bizarre behavior of his.

Really, all I can do is laugh about it... maybe you will too...

So my little guy is constantly kissing the ends of my hair...

Yes. I said kissing it.

Kinda cute, right? Oh wait.

He then caresses my crunchy split ends against his cheek (quite dramatically I might add - eyes closed and all!) while telling me how beautiful it is.

Over. And over. And over. I try not to laugh and respect this strange passion of his but seriously sometimes it is just a bit over the top.

I hear "I just love your hair, Mom" numerous times a day, followed once again by a declaration of it's beauty.

What? This is totally normal 3 year old boy behavior, right?

These compliments baffle me as I have battled with my self-acclaimed nightmare not-quite-curly enough, definitely-not-straight hair my entire life, so to have such a nemesis of mine placed on a pedestal is purely comical to me.

The only explanation is that through the innocent eyes of a child all flaws can be overlooked and pure, unconditional love can reign...

even for naturally-naughty, frizzy, uncooperative, time consuming hair ...!

Before Christmas I was all geared up to have my hair cut into a cute A-line stack. I mentioned to Parker that I was cutting my hair later that week, & he was devastated. He whined and lectured me for three days straight that I couldn't cut it. I couldn't believe how strongly he felt about it so I went ahead and kept it long. So yes, my long lockes these days can be accredited to none other than my 3 year old Little P.

I'm actually glad I didn't cut it all off...I mean seriously when would I grow it this long again? I may as well try it out for a while, right?...

Mental note: Ends up that maybe I should take my little guy's advice more often..

Just in case you weren't convinced of his obsession yet....

I am often instructed in the mornings as to how I should deal with my post-shower hair...

Well, yesterday I was helping P do something when he looked at me sideways and let out an exasperated,

"MO-OOOOOOOM! You did it WRONG! Your hair is supposed to be CURLY today, NOT STRAAAIIGHT! It's supposed to go straight, then back (in a pony), then curly. Today was supposed to be CURLY!" Letting out a big, disappointed sigh he continued, "You gotta remember next time, Mom!". He then repeated the directions,

"STRAIGHT, BACK, THEN CURLY! (wish you could have seen the hand actions!)

You gotta get it RIGHT, Mom!".

Wow. Well Little P, I'm sorry to disappoint. All I can say is that I don't feel "right" about going out in public with my curly hair. Unless I'm really in a bind for time. Explanation? None needed... just reference the picture in a previous but recent post....

So yesterday THIS wasn't good enough for my little hair obsessed man.

(Don't mind the hideous self portrait please...)

Seriously, who knew that pleasing a three year old would be so complicated and involve a flat iron versus a diffuser?

Oh wow. I love my Little Parker though.

Yeah. I'm still waiting, Candid Camera....! :)

Bronson & The Today Show

Remember sweet Little Bronson's miracle that I referenced several posts ago in February? I just randomly looked at their blog today and was so glad I did.... because they are being featured on the Today Show to tell their miraculous story - tomorrow - March 12th. They have declined NBC's offer to air their story several times since this event took place, but now feel a great responsibility to share & help others learn from the miracle that has changed their lives forever & made their faith even greater. You can check out the reasoning behind what has led them to NYC here. It of course is intriguing to read - just as their entire blog has been over the last 6 weeks.

I am a big Today Show fan (the little spurts of it I catch here and there), and just in case any of you have come to love the Staker family through their blog as I have, I just wanted to tell everyone to tune in tomorrow morning!

I know I will.

(or my DVR will at least be set to record...)

Hope you catch this in time! :)

BROS

Last Saturday we were able to meet up with the in-town "Bro's" and their (super cute) wives for a little reunion at the India house for lunch.

Who the heck are "The Bro's" you ask?

Well in case you hadn't heard, they are Chris' good high school buddies who have called themselves this for the last 12+ years. They are the nicest group of guys who all have amazing wives and I can genuinely say that I have loved getting together with them over the years. It's always so fun to see them!

We had a great time over yummy food (I love curry) and it was so great to catch up with everyone!

Thanks Lichelle for making it all happen!

We missed you Jimmy & Carly (in WA doing med school residency), Carl & Barb (Carl is a commercial pilot stationed in Atlanta) & Josh and Brooke (who live in VA and are about to have their first baby -yay!).

(Sorry if I forgot anyone!)

18 month Emmie

This little cutie turned 18 months on February 25th!

For the record books, her 18 month stats go as follows:

WEIGHT: 21.49 lbs = 12th %ile

HEIGHT: 31 inches = 31st %ile

HEAD: 18= 27th %ile

Emmie is such a sweet, happy, content & loving little girl. She is also spunky, knows what she wants & is pretty independent (um she gets that one from me). She does have a history of hitting and biting when things aren't going her way, which baffles me because her brother has never been one to display that type of behavior so I am not sure where she learned these little outbursts. I guess these lovely retaliations might just be an innate result of some of that 'girl blood' firing up in her?? All I can is YIKES! She will have to learn real quick that her 'Ma' (as she calls me) does not tolerate caddy girl drama AT ALL! Non-violent dramatic outburts on the other hand - yes. She certainly could have picked up her drama queen tendencies from her big brother.

WHO, by the way, demonstrated some real good ones on Sunday at church reminding me of why I usually try and sit as far back as I can to avoid the embarrassment of having the congregation view the fiasco that ensues with my lovely little ones during lovely 1:00 church that have been known to bring me to tears on husbandless Sundays like this last one.... but that is a whole other story.....

A FEW OF HER LOVES AT 18 months:

Goofing off with her brother!

She loooves this boy!

They chase each other, race each other, hide and seek each other, help each other, entertain each other, antagonize each other, scream at each other, laugh together, cry together, play together, dance and sing together, conspire together.....LOVE EACH OTHER, ADORE EACH OTHER!

What a blessing it is to have a sibling.

More loves:

Loooves to eat! Favorites? Waffles, string cheese, mandarin oranges, & mac and cheese -- but she'll eat almost anything.

Loooooves shoes! Always wants them on. Doesn't matter whose they are or what size.

LOOOVES jewelry! Always wants to wear my "brace" (bracelet watch).

Loooves her baby dolls. All of them. Such a little mommy.

And her two all time favorite things???

Her right thumb and purple blankie!

Never leave home without them.

We love this baby girl and I love this age.

As Emmie would say,

"Bye bye! MWWWWAH!"

Did I really just waste my time on a whole season of the Bachelor???

Sure did.

Which raises the question: I don't know who's stupider - me or Jake....:)

Okay so the truth is I enjoyed it - the nausea it caused & all...

JAKE & VIENNA -

CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS!

With all sincereity, you so deserve each other.

And I'm seriously so gagging.

Tenley, count your blessings it wasn't you. You can do way better. Trust me. :)