Christmas Eve 2012

CHRISTMAS EVE

COUSINS
Isaac is just 8 months older than Lexi.

Love this cute face!


We spent the evening with Hansens.
I thought I was going to have a panic attack leading up to our ride over there as it had been snowing quite a bit all day and driving in the snow (especially at night) gives me extreme anxiety. BIG TIME! I am such a homebody anyways, and when it's snowing, there are few things that make me put my kids in what I feel to be harms way by driving in bad weather conditions.
 Low and behold, we went anyways, and thankfully made it there and back safely.
Sometimes I think I need to get my hands on some Xanax...

In all honesty, the mood at the Hansens was a somber one this year.
 We were missing these two important family members...



Grandpa and Atticus, Christmas Eve 2011.


{Parker, Atticus and Emmie (& Uncle Z) December 2011}

It's so crazy to look at these pictures from Christmas 2011, just one year ago and think of how oblivious we were to the doom we were all about to be hit with with Atti's diagnosis just weeks later.
My kids loved their first little cousin so much and had such a fun time laughing, chasing and playing with him for days over the Christmas break. It really hurts to not have him here with us. Parker and Emmie pray for Atticus every night. And Cindy and Eric. We hate watching them suffer through the loss of their sweet little boy. It just doesn't seem fair. We're SO grateful for the knowledge of eternal families. But it still stinks.  A LOT!

Grandma H read this cute story about a Christmas train by Thomas S. Monson, and gave that book as a gift to all the family's with kids (the Loncyna extended family side were there also).

We left a little early skipping the candy bar game, so that we could brave the snowy conditions and get our kiddos home and in bed and ready for Santa's visit. 

 

Christmas buildup

Holiday Festivities...

The Festival of Trees... I was so glad we could make it there this year since we missed it in 2011. It was a quick excursion because we had to get back for afternoon kindergarten and preschool, but as always, I was glad that we went!
 I love the Christmas spirit that this festival represents. I love seeing all the beautiful, creative trees that have lovingly & thoughtfully been crafted in honor of lost loved ones & that they stand as a tribute to an amazing person or child.  I love that the proceeds for the auctioned off trees go to Primary Childrens Hospital. 
What's not to love about this awesome Festival?

Visit with Old St. Nick....

None of our kids have ever cried visiting Santa.

Ever!

And we've been to visit every single year of their lives.

 Pretty impressive, ay? Okay maybe not so impressive that they willingly sit on some stranger's lap... Lexi was CLOSE to breaking down but she recovered quickly, keeping up our no-cry record.

Not sure it gets any more corny than this....

They charged us a whopping $30 to get our pics taken with Santa at the Mall.

I know I'm kind of a frugal girl, but THiRTY BUCKS!?

 That was the minimum package, and they won't let you take one with your own camera, so basically you're conned into paying up, if you want any recollection of this moment someday. So of course I had to milk it for all it was worth, and had them take a family pic, in addtion to the kiddo one. Somehow it made me feel a little better for our thirty dollar minute-and-a-half visit with Kris Kringle!

Oh well, sometimes it's just worth sucking it up and paying. :)

 Emmie asked for a Baby Alive Doll, and Parker asked for another "Surprise" this year.

I love that kid.

 

 

 The kids were pretty excited to make gingerbread houses this year!
So maybe they're not the prettiest houses in Gingerbread Land, but we ran out of candy fast, and they were pretty proud of their creations, so we called it a success.

The most important holiday festivity of all to me was getting to Temple Square to see the lights. Chris has Mondays off, so the first Monday that we were healthy in December, we jumped at the chance of going. It was a really, really fun night!
And we lucked out, because it was pretty "warm" too!

 

 I just love the special feeling there is at Temple Square.


Combine that with the Christmas season, the amazing Christmas lights, the nativity, and the statue of the Savior in the Visitors Center, and it makes for a pretty incredible evening.



And to top it off, we walked over to City Creek to find a huge crowd surrounding the fountains that were done by my uncle there, cheering and applauding to the dancing water choreographed to beautiful Christmas music, like is done at the Bellagio. I had not yet seen these fountains at night, and I have to say, they were pretty spectacular! I wished my Grandma were there to see the crowds (or my Uncle - who lives in LA) cheering for her son's amazing water show. SO fun to see that! Even if my uncle weren't the creator, the show was undeniably awesome - confirmed by the applause of the crowd! I loved it!

O Christmas Tree...



It's tradition that every vacation we go on, we try to buy a Christmas ornament for our tree. We started this on our honeymoon in San Diego, where we got a Santa starfish. This year we bought a little sparkly cupcake representing the celebration of Lexi's first birthday in San Francisco, and we also bought a trolley car ornament, hanging there between the girls. We've collected lots of Disney ornaments over the years. Maybe someday we can visit somewhere other than Cali (not that I mind visiting Cali - love it there!) and add a palm tree (from the Caribbean preferably), the White House, Kensington Palace, and a Statue of Liberty...Just a few stops on my bucket list.
Someday, right?!;)

We basically let the kids decorate both trees this year. In the past I would have "fixed" it or tried to perfect them a bit, but I just didn't care this year. It's funny how much more relaxed I am than when we had just one or even two kids. Or maybe it's just that I'm too tired. Either way, some things just don't matter- a lesson I'm always learning. I think they did a pretty good job though! (and not to say Chris and I didn't help at all...)

Having kids just puts a whole new spin on Christmas and we had a great holiday season! We mostly stayed healthy, a small miracle in itself since November and January and so far February were super sickly months for us!
Very grateful to be healthy for the holidays and very grateful for these cute little faces to share them with!

Sibling dynamics

This little munchkin...


She kind of rules the roost around here.
She might be itty, (insinuating innocence) but don't be fooled...

Need I say more.
You can just hear her adorable, cackly little squeal by looking at this picture.
She has us wrapped around her little finger.
And she knows it.

She loves her goofy big brother and sister.

This photo op back in November was irresistible with these two giggling in delight of each other, teasing and taunting.
 Fresh out of their baths.
 Lexi loves her "Darder" (her attempt (beginning Jan '13) at saying "Parker"), and Parker loves his "Lex Lex".


He had her back as she climbed up the stairs for the first time back in December,
& I have a feeling this doting big bro always will!
He thinks she's pretty awesome.
And hysterical.
Lexi loves that he finds her funny.

She can con all sorts of things out of her big brother, like pretty awesome rides...slicked back hair after baths makes them extra authentic.

And when no one else can get Lexi to eat, no worries, big sis to the rescue! While she's at it, Emmie will even provide some happy hour entertainment.
I love it when my kids make each other laugh.

As much as she loves them, and loves their attention, Lexi also values  her space. High-pitched,  Pterodactyl-like shrieks often rattle our house, and despite her calls of warning to back off, her sibs don't always heed. As a result, one of the many shouted repeated phrases in our home, justified by the rescue of our littlest is, " LEAVE. LEXI. ALONE!". While Parker loves to help and play with his sis, he's also not above harassing her and poor Lex is just not always up to it.  In this last few weeks (late January), Lexi's new thing is to aggressively call out,
 "EH EHHHHH!" to anyone who might be approaching when she's not ready to interact. Mostly she gives this call out to P and E who like to tote her around without her permission, but she also uses it on Mom and Dad when she doesn't want to be removed from whatever naughty activity she's gotten into.
  Our sweet little Lex is turning into quite the sassy lately!

But all in all she's so sweet and fun and definitely does not lack in preferences, opinions and personality! She adds so much to our family and we love her so much!
She is definitely the 3rd child and holds her own against her big brother and sister!

 

It's crazy to me that this awesome little package of three kiddos all happened in  just 5 years.
 It's gone by in a flash.
They have brought us more delight, more messes, more patience-testing, more smiles, more psychotic episodes (by both adult and child), more value, more sleep deprivation, more adventure, more challenges, more satisfaction, more testing of limits, more fulfillment, more sheer exhaustion, more fun, more stress, more meaning, more cleaning, and more JOY to our lives than we ever knew possible.
We think they're pretty awesome and feel blessed to call them ours.

Stylish...one of the cool things you learn in preschool

Emmie has been loving her first year of preschool!

She is Little Miss Confident, and going to school only boosts her in this area.
She is 4 going on 14, that is for sure!
 I love that she's so excited to try new things and adapts to them easily.

She was so proud to be "Star of the Week" back in November. I got to go to her class and tell them about some of her favorite things. I was relieved to see that she wasn't embarrassed to have me there. I guess I have a few more years before those days arrive....

  She's learned alot, including the new vocabulary word, "STYLISH".
I know, because I hear it used, in all different contexts, all day! Who knew they taught such things in Preschool? ;) She goes around saying things like, "Wow Mom, that's stylish!", or after coloring a picture, "Super stylish!". Or after putting the finishing touch on her wardrobe with a scarf or a final fluff of her hair, she'll say with relief, "Okay, NOW I'm stylish". Or often times, she just gives the simple approving raise of the eyebrows and a purse of the lips, followed by a nonchalant "STYLISH", & walk away. And  my personal favorite, when someone hasn't behaved the way she wants them to, like Cinderella's evil Stepsisters, she'll declare, "Ohhh, they're NEVER going to be stylish".
Which to her, is the ultimate punishment.
Watch out!
So if you want to know whether you're stylish or not, just ask our little Queen of the word, Judge of the Style.
 Truth be told, I suspect she doesn't  really understand it's true meaning, but I have no plans to burst her bubble anytime soon.
Are you kidding?
I've never been so "stylish" in all my life!

 

Soccer catch up

 

What better time than January to document Fall soccer? ;)

 

BLUE LIGHTNING!

 

Parker has played on this Fall/Spring team with some of his favorite friends for the last three years. Our two awesome neighbors are the coaches this year. Chris would love to coach, but unfortunately he works almost every Saturday, so I am usually toting the kids solo to the games (no complaints!:).

 

 

Parker took some soccer camps over the summer (I think I already blogged about them), & they really helped to improve his skills this year! He's a fast little guy, sometimes causes me to cringe with his aggressiveness in getting the ball, and at times quite wild and goofy on the field.
He really loves playing and I really love watching him develop a skill that doesn't involve anything electronic. :)

Here he is with two of his very best buddies. He loves and looks up to these guys so much! And for the record, Parker's not as tiny as he looks - Owen and Baden are just really tall for their age!
P's excited to start up again in the Spring! 

Thanksgiving

Is it just me, or do these 2 Wild Little Indians look so grown up?....

 

They had their school Thanksgiving "Feasts" on the same day and were so proud of their feather hats and macaroni necklaces. I just barely (it's January) got away with throwing them out.

 

Thanksgiving Day...
The ritualistic holiday picture before running out the door to our holiday celebration!

We spent Thanksgiving with my Dad's side of the family, at Aunt Jamie's this year.
 I wish I would have gotten a picture of her tables, they are always so nice and fancy.  I dropped my camera a few months back, and ever since I've been irritated with it's performance, and I've been turned off to taking pictures (I'm sure our family has been super relieved;). I mostly snapped pics of the babies....
Note that Lexi and Cousin Jack are the same size (actually - he's a little bigger!) and Lex is 8 months older! I guess my chants of  "Grow Lexi, Grow!", aren't working so well...
 They enjoyed one of their last play times with each other on Thanksgiving before Jack, Steve and Kylie move to San Diego (which happened Dec 27th)...Sad!
I made and brought my usual must-haves for Thanksgiving...Molasses cookies (I wait for this time of year, all year, to make them!), Orange Sherbet Thanksgiving Day jello (only time of year I break out and make jello - I love this stuff, and I'm not a big jello fan), and "Festive" mandarin orange and pomegranate green salad.... my only other mandatory Thanksgiving food would be mashed potatoes! (and of course we had those) I am just fine without turkey and Chris and I just don't care for stuffing....at all!
It was a quick but good Thanksgiving!

Minus 4 teeth in 3 months

This little Handsome lost his first tooth on September 12.
I remember, because it was the day after September 11th, which was picture day. :) Two weeks later he lost his other middle bottom tooth. He was thrilled to get 2 gold dollars per tooth from the Tooth Fairy!
 Over the next few weeks his new teeth tried their best at growing in, but didn't quite have enough space. On a visit to the dentist, it was confirmed that the next two on both sides of the middle guys needed to be pulled to make more room...resulting in this smile:  

 

 P was very brave getting those next 2 pulled! When those teeth start growing in (in the next year or two), he will have to do the same thing- have the next two pulled, and then get space maintainers, then of course braces.

Between spatial issues, his sweet tooth, and Grandma H's confession of bad oral health genes, I think we're going to be spending a lot of time in the dental office over the next decade.  

Post nap 'do

Bedhead.
She gets it from me.
 It's pretty impressive at our house.
 

Halloween in January...

Halloween 2012

 

These little munchkins picked out their costumes themselves this year. (Well, the older 2)

 With absolutely no persuasion, hints or help from me.

 Or Chris.

{ Although, once Uncle Steven showed P that they had Super Mario costumes online, there was no going back...thanks Dude, I owe ya.}

I was just happy that the extent of my "work" on their costumes this year was to simply click in their orders on my computer and have them show up on my doorstep.

Oh, how I love shopping online.

 Smartest thing I did in October.

 For sure. :)

And even better, I didn't feel one ounce of guilt for it.

 

Mario

 

 

Cinderella

 

 

Our little lady bug!

 She loved her costume...

 

The OTHER Lady Bug, Roxy... not so much! She hated it. We got her getup back when we lived in Arizona,

 and we were "those" pet people, you know the kind.

 The ones who buy their animals outfits and Halloween costumes,  who have health insurance plans and special seat belts for their dogs, and whose mutts faces are the only face to adorn the family Christmas card.

Yep. That was us.

Once upon a time.

 It's really kind of embarrassing now.

That was back when we didn't have real babies to take care of and had the time and patience to actually be good pet parents.

Wow, how times have changed...;)

That poor dog has been dethroned 3 times. Sometimes I wonder why she sticks around, but I know she's fiercely loyal so I suppose that's why she hasn't run for the hills yet. Yet...

 

 Chris had to work on Halloween night, but it was okay because the Hansens came to the rescue to help pass out candy while I went Trick or Treating with the kiddos, Uncles Zach came along too with his UP house (minus the balloons in case that wasn't obvious- he came straight from a Final) and even second cousins (Chris' cousin, Lara and her husband Jose's kids) came to join in the fun!We had a great time and it was one of the warmest Halloweens I can remember ever having.
 It was a good night!